Allow me tell you a tale, followed by a quiz.
There is a man. He's not a bad looking man and he is generally a happy go lucky kinda guy with a comfortable life. Ok, so he's single, but he has at least three f*ck buddies. Life is pretty good.
There is a girl, one of the buddies of the above mentioned man. She fulfils a need in the man, not only cooking him the odd meal and going to stupid movies, but she also dresses in latex and let him watch porn in her lounge. Life is OK for her too.
Now, when these two are making woopy, he can get pretty rough, she doesn't mind that too much. He will penetrate her and she'll get ohh so close to achieving a 'little death' but then he'll withdraw and finish himself manually. This happens everytime he goes in the front, but if he f*cks her arse, he finishes inside.
Now the questions:
Should the girl get a complex?
Does the guy have a problem?
Is the girl over thinking this?
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- This blog is about my experiences of getting back into the BDSM scene after thirteen years away from it. I believe in SSC – Safe, Sane and Consensual, therefore I am keeping my identity to myself to protect those who trust me enough to be under my boot. I believe sex is something you never forget, you just have to get your balance back under control. All names have been changed to protect the not so innocent.
4 comments:
He doesn't have a problem, and you shouldn't worry. Two possiblilites here:
1) it's simple physics, he needs more friction to come. So back door works better.
2) back door's a bit naughtier and it's the extra stimulus that drives his over the edge.
I'm assuming that he's older than 35. If he's younger, ignore what I'm saying.
Yes, I'm like this too.
well, my thing would be you should GET to the "little death" BEFORE he finishes manually - it would piss me off,not so much the finishign himself of, but the lack of sensitivity towards my pleasure.
There are a number of bloggers out there where the man does this. It must be their own special thing. BUT as Selkie says you need to come too so he needs to get a bit more skilled at working you before he brings himself off.
The front entry scenario is like the fuck-and-suck videos: the man pulls out for a "cum shot". If this man was raised on this sort of thing, then maybe that is all he knows. I find it boring and childish.
"Should the girl get a complex?" If the girl does not say anything about it to him, then he must assume that all is well. As unenlightened as he is, maybe he is capable of learning. The girl should teach him.
"Does this guy have a problem?" No, it is the girl who has the problem.
"Is the girl over thinkg this?" No. When a man has a vanilla relationship with a woman, as in this case, she should always come first. If she does, then what he does afterward may not become an issue. Now, if the two of you get more adventurous, then anything goes. Still, if he ends up doing the same thing every time, then I doubt that "the girl" will be satisfied.
The bottom line is, this man needs to be educated on what the girl wants.
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